Terms of Service

Last updated: August 19, 2026

These terms are a plain-language summary, not a substitute for reading them carefully. By creating an account you agree to all of the sections below.

1. Who can use this

You must be 18 or older to create an account or use Share Control. By registering, you confirm you meet this requirement.

2. Consent

Every session on this platform requires active, freely given consent from everyone involved, every time. This isn't optional or a formality - it's the core rule the rest of these terms build on.

In practice, that means:

Consent must be actively given. Silence, not saying no, being logged into this site, having a link, or not stopping something already in progress is not consent.
Consent is per session. Someone having taken control before, being friends, having messaged you, or any prior session does not carry over. Each time is a new decision.
Consent can be withdrawn at any time, for any reason, with no explanation owed. If it's withdrawn, control must stop immediately.
The wait before confirming is there so you actually read the message. Owners can attach a message describing who or what they're looking for, and that's part of what they're consenting to - not "anyone who clicks fast enough." Use the wait to read it and check that you genuinely fit. If you don't, the right move is to leave the link alone and look elsewhere. Confirming anyway, despite not matching what the owner asked for, is going against what they consented to and can get you reported.
Sharing your own link is not a blanket invitation. As the owner, you're still entitled to withdraw consent for a specific session at any point, including after someone has confirmed control.

We're based in the Netherlands, where the law is explicit on this point: a sexual act performed without consent can constitute rape or sexual assault, regardless of the relationship between the people involved, what happened before, or whether anyone said no out loud. Absence of consent - not absence of refusal - is what matters. Using this platform to pressure, coerce, or act against someone without their active consent is both a violation of these terms and, potentially, a criminal offense.

If consent is ever unclear, the answer is to stop and ask - not to proceed.

3. What this service is

Share Control lets you share a control link to a Lovense device with another user, who can request temporary control after a short confirmation delay. The actual device control happens through Lovense's own platform - Share Control only handles the sharing, matching, and permission layer around it. Your use of the Lovense link itself is subject to Lovense's own terms.

4. Your account

You're responsible for keeping your login credentials secure and for all activity under your account.
You must provide a working email address and complete verification.
We may close new registrations at any time without it affecting existing accounts.

5. Safety

We don't verify who's on the other end of a link. Treat other users with the same caution you would with any stranger online. You're solely responsible for what you choose to do with a device you're given control of, and for the consequences of sharing control of your own device.

6. Acceptable use

You agree not to:

Act against someone's consent, as described in Section 2, or pressure or coerce anyone into giving it
Harass, threaten, or impersonate other users
Share another person's control link, messages, or personal information without their consent
Use the service if you're under 18, or to target or facilitate contact with anyone under 18
Spam, scam, or use bots or automation against the service
Attempt to bypass blocking, reporting, or safety features

Violating this can get your account suspended or terminated, with or without notice.

7. Blocking and reporting

You can block or report other users at any time. Reports are reviewed and may result in the other account being restricted or banned. Filing knowingly false reports is itself a violation of these terms.

8. Content you post

Messages, tags, and profile text you post must be your own and must follow the rules in Section 6. We may remove content or restrict accounts that violate this without prior notice.

9. No warranty

Share Control is provided "as is." We don't guarantee uptime, that links will work as expected, or that other users will behave appropriately. We're not responsible for the availability, behavior, or content of Lovense's platform or any third-party service linked from here.

10. Limitation of liability

To the fullest extent the law allows, Share Control and its operators aren't liable for any damages - physical, emotional, financial, or otherwise - arising from your use of the service, including from another user's actions or from device malfunction.

11. Governing law

These terms are governed by the laws of the Netherlands. Any dispute that can't be resolved directly will be brought before the competent Dutch courts.

12. Changes

We may update these terms from time to time. Continued use after a change means you accept the update.

13. Contact

Questions about these terms: use our contact form.